In the previous episode, the topic of focus was the myth of being normal. Today’s episode further explores this myth and how it shows up in daily life. We often strive to be different from who we are at any given moment, but self-love isn’t about attaining our internal idea of “perfection.” Self-love is knowing that no matter what, you can forgive and accept without expectation.

Having high expectations of yourself is okay, but perhaps you can find some room to loosen up. Where you are right now is just fine and normal. In fact, there are as many versions of “normal” as there are people on the planet. It all comes back to trusting that who you are and how you are is enough.

Topics covered in this episode:

  • Where feeling like we need to be different comes from.
  • Why the idea of self-love can be frustrating when you’re struggling.
  • How Sarah’s idea of love and self-love has changed.
  • How you can move towards loving yourself at your own pace.
  • Why love requires acceptance first.
  • An example of how our thoughts cannot be who we are.
  • What perfectionist minds have a tendency to do and why.
  • How slowing down allows for the introduction of new ideas.
  • The importance of being curious.
  • Where suffering actually comes from and how it shows up.
  • How innocent research can lead to unhelpful behaviors.
  • How the idea of normal is a fluid concept.
  • A strategy you can try this week to work towards acceptance.

 

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